Few days ago, i just came back from Jura, France..
I went on Saturday and came back on Sunday to find my room mate crying.
I was tired after the 3 hour journey so i was thinking that after a shower i'll go talk to her..
mana tau, after i came out from the shower...
she was no longer there..
so i went and call my frens and see if they know anything..


Apparently, she was under so much pressure that she says that she wants to quit school. The two of her group mates which is also my close frens says that it is for the best. After hearing about the news, i was very up sad. I know i have no reason to be that up sad..but by understand what position she is standing on makes me feel like i am the one suffering. But like my frens said that..maybe it's for the best...

After coming back, i saw my room mate, i went and talk to her..she told me what happen... and all along the pressure just kept building up...

U know, the assignment that we are all suppose to do now is a debate. The group members have to assign different position for every individuals. there are 3 person in a group. The 1st person has the easy job which is just to have an great opening statement and state the 3 supporting point. 2nd person have to be alert and listen to the the opponent and ask questions regarding the topic. and the last person have to do the conclusion.

Let me put the situation for u, let's say that your in a group where u know that this particular girl is the weakness among all of u and this is a group mark. would u give her the easier job or the hardest?
i sorry to say this. but the fact is that my room mate is the weakest of all and i know that for a fact because i have been tutoring her all the while. whatever that we learn in class, i have to teach her from scratch. I'm not trying to be mean, she have been living under her dad's protection all the while. and i'm not the only one who knows about it...

So, back to the point, would u put a person like her for the 2nd part where she has to listen to every detail of the opponent and shoot the opponent with question that is so strong it will bring them down?! well, they did. and the so call 'vy good' group mates took the easy part...

and now, when finally my room mate couldn't not take it any more and cried. they make it as though it was normal..and said that she would break any time soon...and then now they complain that they have to do her job as well...

IF they have given her the easy part the first tim, then they dun have to do such last minute job?! 'm so darn pissed. I went all the way over there and TRIED telling them this..but as stubborn as they are..they just laugh it off...I walk off...

After thinking a while, i told them i will NEVER interfere with their group discussion. coz it's none of my business..come to think about it, i have absolutely nth to do with it..but i told my room mate that i will help her as much as i can..i just don't wanna comment on they way of doing things any more...

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will update my blog about the Jura, France Trip...